Workplace relationships are often dangerous. The endless hours trapped in an office with your boss may have your eyes sliding his way. The employee can make the first move and seduce the boss with a little daring and a lot of luck. Just follow these steps.
Consider the consequences. Flirting or seducing your boss is tantamount to career suicide so make certain you don't want to keep that job. If your attraction to your boss is steeped in his power and dominance you might consider that if you lose your position after an inappropriate affair he will lose that attractive power. Be honest with yourself about the consequences before you move forward to the next steps.
Consider the consequences. Flirting or seducing your boss is tantamount to career suicide so make certain you don't want to keep that job. If your attraction to your boss is steeped in his power and dominance you might consider that if you lose your position after an inappropriate affair he will lose that attractive power. Be honest with yourself about the consequences before you move forward to the next steps.
Make your availability obvious. Don't let your boss think you are attached. Keep any dates or other relationships out of the office so that your boss considers you available.
Dress the part. Avoid dressing for a night out at a club when at the office; this is obvious and will attract notice throughout the office. Apply a subtle adjustment to your office attire. Try to open an extra button on your blouse or begin wearing slightly shorter skirts. Take one part of your attire and increase the sex appeal just a notch to get your employer's attention.
Flirt when possible. Take advantage of alone time with your boss for some light hearted flirting. Pay attention to the response. If he's receptive you might be ready to move to the next step. If he's not, back off and try again later. Remember that if you flirt in front of coworkers your boss could block the signals you want to see so keep the flirting behind closed doors by lingering for a few minutes of alone time after meetings, on the elevator after work or behind closed doors in his office.
Arrive early and stay late. Increase the chances of alone time by arriving early to work and offering to stay late. Working with your boss late in the night to finish a special project is an excellent opportunity for seduction. Let him know you are available by agreeing to work extra and then take advantage of the opportunity to connect without an audience.
Move into his space. During your time together consider taking flirting to the next step by moving closer. Stage a little invasion into his personal space and watch for him to move closer. Be subtle and you might find your boss planning a seduction of his own.
Get closer. Once you have the go ahead signals from your boss it's time to move forward. Take the leap to get closer and have your seduction in the office and anywhere else you can manage. Enjoy the flash of a quick and tidy affair because it isn't likely to last long.
You can seduce your boss if you are willing to take the risk. Pay attention to signals he sends then if the time is right, make your move and enjoy the ride.
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